For some reason people like to complicate adding humor to a speech. Look around online and you will find all kinds of useless, vague, generalities.
Once you get past these âvagueralitiesâ and dig into the science of humor and laughter you will find the triggers of human laughter.
One such trigger is incongruity or juxtaposition.
Here is one of my favorite examples:
Carol Leifer:
Sex when youâre married is like going to a 7-Eleven. Thereâs not as much variety, but at three in the morning, itâs always there.
Now, your audience will determine if you would tell a joke like that but the structure is sound and very powerful.
Why is this funny?
At the heart of the joke is the unlikely combination of sex and a convenience store. You can use this powerful technique to add humor to your speeches too.
How?
One way is look for places in your speech where you already use a simile or a metaphor.
I evaluated a speech where the speaker likened waiting in line at the airport to waiting in line at Disneyland. Now, the audience laughed at just that thought but there was so much more opportunity there to add humor.
If you donât recognize any existing opportunities in your speech, add them by introducing the second topic.
Think to yourself what is this like? Once you have the two distinct subjects, make a list of all the associations for each subject; the longer the list the better.
Go ahead and make some lists for everything airport/airline and everything Disneyland.
When I do that list the first thing on Disneyland is fast pass.
I can now use the idea of âfast passâ and add more humor.
How? Simply by adding, âexcept security at the airport wonât honor a fast pass.â
Once you have the idea and know how incongruity works you can use it to craft several lines and find the best one for adding humor to your speech.
Here is another example from my daily practice of joke writing.
I like to go through the "paper" looking for headlines. When one catches my eye, I write it down and start working on writing 20 jokes. Last fall, this headline piqued my interest.
Balloon Stolen At Albuquerque Balloon Fest
The first thing I did was create the lists.
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